I am starting to believe that there is no such thing as tragedy. There is only opportunity for growth, and should you accept it, the reward overcomes the sailing of the hardship.I got off the phone with my brave parents in Mesa this evening. They gave me the daily update, Steph had another skin scraping surgery (this time in the facial area mostly) and Christian keeps looking better and better for a burn patient (keeping things in perspective). We have been told that Steph will likely look much different after her healing. That prospect is difficult for me to fully accept. It brings up so many questions I can only solve in due time. But something in my depths knows that it will be beautiful. She will be beautiful because she is beautiful.
I am left to wonder, what sacrifice would you go through personally to personally affect thousands of lives? Your beauty?
The heros of this story have been my rallying family. Each sister (blood and law) have assigned themselves days of the week to take over the children, laundry or meals. Niece and nephews are volunteering one of their weekend nights so that Lucy and Ric, Chup and I can go out on dates. Cousins show up every morning to walk Claire and Jane to school together and arrive after school to drop them (safely) home. Of course, these are all done with immense compassion, linking us all together and giving our relationships renewed purpose.
Neighbors have showed up with food, cereal and treats (never turned away). My friends greeted me first at the Balloon Launch and cried with me amongst the crowd. Steph and Christian's friends have created websites, sent packages to the kids and stepped up efforts for donations. I have decided to turn no one away, because I want to give anyone the opportunity to feel the good that comes from the serving. It's a story of begatting love.
And then there is this blogging world which has overwhelmed me and my family. Strangers who e-mail the most inspiring words (forgive me, I am a couple days behind on e-mails). Your comments on this blog have made Chup cry on several occasions. When I feel my heart starting to despair I have online access to inspiration. I love hearing about how you love my sister. (How could you not?) Family members feel the same way about your responses. Thank you for praying for someone you know through a blogspot. Please know, it does make a difference. Huge.
This Thursday has been declared by Design Mom as Nie Nie Day. There are many ways to celebrate, including hosting a silent auction via your blog comments. I saw tonight that there has been a massive response by bloggers and crafters to join in and raise money for the Recovery Fund. We love you and then we take a deep breath and love you some more. Same goes for all the wonderful fundraising going on all over the globe.
But most of all, as part of our LDS doctrine, we are fully aware of the sacredness of the soul. And we believe in a Father in Heaven who has a plan for our souls. There is something about walking through the valley of the shadow of death that reminds us how glorious it is to have a body and a spirit. And we look forward to the day when both will be inseparable.
Where is the tragedy here?
(Thanks to my oldest brother Coach Steve I will be auctioning off something in tribute to Christian's love of BYU Football on Thursday. They are not items that Nie would want really, but they are items that Nie would want Mr. Nielson to have!)
228 comments:
1 – 200 of 228 Newer› Newest»I am so incredibly sorry for what has happened. What an amazing family you have and how very loved those children are.
Thank you for sharing and good luck with everything you have ahead of you.
~Zak
I left my sister in the LDS hospital, not knowing if I'd ever see her again. She had been there for 2 months and in the process of enduring her stay there, fighting to get well, had weeks previous, lost her eyesight. I did see her again, just an hour before her passing. My husband and I took her two boys, 12 & 14 into our home during the times that her husband was away with his job as a pilot. Two years later, I still remind the boys, as their mother had said to them in the hospital...'the Lord prepared you for this.' There are so many blessings and treasured moments amidst tragedy and the Lord prepared the Nielson and Clark family for this too. It helps me so much to remember this in the good times and bad. Our blessings to you all!
Jane - with most families it is a tragedy that brings them togather but with the LDS faith our families all have such a strong closeness already and an abiding faith that no matter what Heavenly Father has a plan for us all.
I wish I were closer to bring a meal or offer support and hugs. Please know that I keep your sister and brother in my nightly prayers. I have put togather a nice patriotic lap quilt that I will be auctioning off on Nie Nie day. Please be sure to add my blog to your blog roll on that day as I haave very few visitors to my blog and I want to be able to get the most I can.
Take care - Barbara York
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"Life is full of surprises, full of ups and downs
And so to have a silver lining, first there must be a cloud"
I am so thankful fo rthe blessing that have come your way during this downpour. The Lord makes miracles happen all the time.
It is so good to hear how you have all pulled together to provide a safe harbor for the whole family.
perfect. beautiful.
thank you
When I first heard about the accident, I kept praying that her beauty would be spared. And as I did, I couldn't help but think I was being silly. And yet, I'm still praying for it. But, maybe one of the most important things about beauty is its layers, its depth, especially in someone like Stephanie who is beautiful in so many different ways.
*Delurking Alert*
Wow, what a ride. I read about your sister's accident Sunday, and have spent the days since reading her, and your blog from the very start. We live half a world apart, have different religious, political and life views - but we're still so alike in many ways. For whatever it's worth, I'll be reading, and praying, from afar.
This accident, along with so many other horrible things in the world right now, are actually helping me become a better person. A better mother, wife and friend. What a blessing that we do not know how long we have on this earth, and that we never know what the next day brings. If we want a full life, we must enjoy it now, today, this very minute.
I hope I have enough love in me to be felt all the way over in UT and AZ. If only every family could be as lucky as yours, the world would no doubt be a better place.
xo
Jennie
I shed tears of sorrow, gratitude, awe and pain. What special Spirits Stephanie and Christian are that our loving Heavenly Father could "bless" them with this immense trial. All of you.
You remind me that we can indeed overcome through our acceptance and diligence to endure faithfully.
I'm honored to participate in the Silent Auction. It helps heal the little piece of my heart that aches for you (collectively).
Constant Prayers.
Such amazing people you all are. What a great outlook you have on all of this. I am so happy to be a part of Nie Nie day!
I first learned about the crash through Peek-a-Booprints' blog. Now I'm seeing Nie's story on several blogs and I keep checking up on how she is doing. The blogging world truly is an amazing one.
I've joined in on the Etsy auction and will be doing a post about it on my blog later. I don't have 1000s of readers but I'll do my best to spread the word.
Some day Nie and Christian will be able to look at your blog. It will tell them about the days they missed, it will show them the pictures of their kids who will no doubt have changed by the time they wake up and it will show the love you have for them. The healing of their bodies is now the most important thing, but coming to terms with was has happened and how it has affected them will be much harder. It's good to know that they have such a loving family, who will love them no matter what.
Love,
Tania from Belgium
... and I cry.
I wish every family that suffered tradegy could have the wonderful family and world support Stephanie and Christian have. It is also wonderful of you to continue to share all of this with the world so people can step up open their hearts and be all that they can be. Take care.
As always, I'm uplifted by your your latest post, and so happy to hear of Stephanie's and Christian's progress.
The last few days, I've had a Stevie Wonder song on repeat that I love - Ribbon In The Sky. It's a song that is so beautiful, it literally makes me tear up sometimes. Today as I was listening to it, I suddenly thought of Stephanie and Christian's balloon launches, and all the pictures posted here, with ribbons tied and trailing the balloons containing wishes. I teared up again. The lyrics seem so appropriate to the situation, so I hope you don't mind me posting them here
Ribbon In The Sky
Oh so long for this night I've prayed
That a star would guide you my way
To share with me this special day
Where a ribbon's in the sky for our love
If allowed, may I touch your hand,
And if pleased, may I once again
So that you too will understand
There's a ribbon in the sky for our love.
This is not a coincidence,
And far more than a lucky chance
But what is that was always meant
Is a ribbon in the sky for our love.
Love, we can't lose with God on our side.
We'll find strength in each tear we cry.
From now on it will be you and I
And a ribbon in the sky, ribbon in the sky,
A ribbon in the sky for our love.
There's a ribbon in the sky for our love.
I just wanted to let you know that their family is in our prayers. Thank you for keeping the blog updated with their progress, we are praying for their children as well. I just wanted to post my etsy site, I have stuff for sale that I will donate all of the proceeds to Stephanie and Christian's fund, it is at ciaobellababy.etsy.com I have not yet updated all of my items, but hope to do it soon. Good luck
Claire
as always so wonderfully written.
xoxo
I don't have a clever or meaningful word to say!
You laugh, you cry, you hurt, you swell with joy, you fear, you know, you inspire, you uplift, you teach....this kind of love is the absolute purest form of beautiful there is!
Dear Courtney,
I will also be holding an auction on my blog for Stephanie. I wish you and your family all the best! Just wanted Stephanie to know she has people rooting for her---even in Japan!
Happy Birthday, Chup!!!!!!!
I've read your sister's blog for a while as I love to read blogs of other LDS women. What a true example of a Christlike woman she is!! My thoughts and prayers are with Stephanie, Christian, their children, and all of you who have been affected so profoundly by this experience. May the Lord continue to give you strength in the weeks and months ahead to cope with whatever you may face. Your sister will always be beautiful.
Much Love - Joanne, England
Wow, that is amazing. Amazing to see your perspective.
I wish I could do more. For now, know that I am praying for Steph, Christian, their children, you, and your family.
I also love what you said about "not turning anyone away." That is so important for you and "them" for overall healing.
Blessings poured out, CJane!!
I have been amazed at the fulfilling lives your sister and her husband have led in such a short amount of time-- I for one cannot wait to see what they do with the rest. I have no doubt it will be just as beautiful.
I keeping going back to the quote someone posted by President Ezra Taft Benson
"Men and women who turn their lives over to God will discover that He can make a lot more out of their lives than they can. He will deepen their joys, expand their vision, quicken their minds, strengthen their muscles, lift their spirits, multiply their blessings, increase their opportunities, comfort their souls, raise up friends, and pour out peace."
The first time I read this I thought about your sister, but now as the days have passed I think this is more about your entire family. I'm thankful that I've been able to witness a true example of Christlike love.
I came across your blog through Liz's blog and have been in awe of your family rallying together through this tragedy. I know this is what God created family for and it is so refreshing to see it put into action the very way He intended. Although we do not share the same beliefs, I do know that God cares deeply about what is going on in your family. He gives strength for each new day and His mercies are renewed every day. I am praying for you and your family. May you feel God's love and strength to endure each and every moment. You have an incredible gift for writing and you and your husband have sacrificed your time with your own little one to be the "step in" mom and dad for your sister's children. Not many people can just up and pick up and put their lives on hold to do this. Not because they don't want to, but because of life, jobs, small houses, etc. Your sister and brother-in-law will love reading your blog when she is well enough to and will cherish you for the sacrifice you are making on their behalf. God's blessings to you.
Another true, beautiful post.
Your family is such a wonderful example of your LDS faith.
Your courage and strength amaze me. I lost my brother in March and one of the hardest things for me was feeling that, with all this wonderful gospel truth that we have, it didn't make it any easier. The missing and the hurting were (are) so poignantly painful and present. Evidence of love, they say. We are just coming out of the woods on that one, and I hope that somehow along the way I am becoming who Heavenly Father wants me to be. It's inspiring to see the faith and optimism you have during such strife and chaos. While you must be experiencing the most exquisite pain and sadness, you do it so beautifully. Your family is truly touching thousands of lives. What enormous testimonies you have. Thanks for sharing your strength.
Hi Jane,
Firstly, as everyone before me has said, I am sorry, for everything.
I cannot begin to imagine the journey you are on with your family, but know from reading about it that you are all very strong in your faith and love and this is what will get you through.
You have lifted my spirits tonight, even through all your heartache. It is the first anniversary today of my dad's passing and it has been an horrendous day..but you have made me see that I can go on.
Thank you.
Regardless of the outcome she will still be beautiful, because like you said she is! Thank you so much for letting us be a part of this recovery process. You could have just shut your blog down and said that you didn't have time due to a family crisis. Thank you sharing this story with us and letting us be involved because our hearts have truly been touched. The gospel is truly wonderful as it teaches us that we will be restored to our fullness one day.
What an amazing family you all are. I find myself in awe of how you only focus on the positive. If only everyone could do that.
I don't personally know any of you, but I want to thank you for sharing - I have personally begun to do an inventory of my own life because of Stephanie and Christian, and all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
The strength of you and your family is so inspiring and yet because of your (and mine) beliefs not surprising. I have often wondered how I would react if my faith was tested to the depth that Nie's, Christian's and your family's is being tested. I am praying for them both, their children, your family and the doctors. I strive to have the faith, strength and grace that is being shown. Heartfelt love, thoughts and prayers, julie
c, God is so using you in this chapter of His good book:)
love and prayers... sweetheart,
dani
thank you for being so committed to updates. your blog is the first and last thing i look at every day. It fills my soul with hope and understanding. I plan on donating ....please add my website. www.laurascomfychair.blogspot.com
First of all I am sorry for not commenting or writing earlier. I have been following your blog since I read about NieNie on another blog.
I have shed a couple of tears so far, although I don't know either of you and haven't had the pleasure to read your sisters blog earlier. Now when I read it, I find it inspiring, not only creatively, but also from the way that she just seems to spread happiness and sweetness in every picture and blog entry.
I dearly hope that everything will be fine with her and her husband and their children. I think you are all doing such a wonderful job and are all definately in my prayers.
In these times it is so amazing how the gospel helps us to get along, hope and survive and it connects us with fellow members or people we have never seen.
Many greetings and all that you guys can think / whish of from Sweden.
Your witty and eloquent writing painted a picture of a family that is bonded together; one that pulls together and loves together. Your words brought me to my knees in mighty prayer to my father in heaven for a couple I have never met or heard of until this moment. May God continue to bless you as you share the story of your sister and brother-in-law. He is working through you to reach people across the nation and to bring to them the joy of knowing families are eternal and the true meaning of faith and hope. Your words have power and I felt it as I read each word. I send my love, condolences, tears, faith, and love for their children. Thank you, and God bless.
All I can say is I wish I could do more. I have no money to donate. In fact, if I were to do an auction, I would need the money for my own family so bad. I have wondered as I play with my children (boys, ages 9 and 3), what could I possibly do? Being a stranger, I didn't want to ask for your address so I could give the kids something. I have the perfect Buzz Lightyear gun for Ollie that my 3 yr old doesn't really need. He has enough guns. Besides, his favorite thing in the whole world is his "backscratcher sword." I would love to let my little 3 yr old play with Ollie. I'd love to be able to do ANYTIHNG. But since I'm only a blogging friend I can't. I do have a plan though. My sister is the music teacher at your niece's school. Soon I will have her send some music home. I'll give the kids my favorite CD's and hope they love them too.
As for Stephanie and Christian, I'm so glad they are healing. My prayers are simple in their behalf. I pray they will be able to heal so they can raise their children whom they love so much. I also add the side note that they can heal enough to not scare the kids. I pray for you and Chup. I pray for the kids that they will have peace. You are so lucky to have so much family.
I believe that the Lord sends us ways to handle things that we never thought we would possibly be able to endure. And most of the time, it is through the love and service of others.
I am so happy for Stephanie and Christian and your family, that you are surrounded by the love of others right now.
Of course I don't know Stephanie, but I literally cannot wait for the day that she is able to hear and read of all of the outpouring of love for their sweet family.
I will admit that I thought of Steph's beauty as well. Picturing she would heal up and look just the same. I know that's not probable but she will always be beautiful. I am striving to have more love in my home. More passion for the little things, in honor of her.
When thinking of Stephanie and Christian, I have thought that I hope there faces are okay. But, reading what you wrote today lets me know that Stephanie does have some burns on her face. I agree that it will be hard to have her look different because she is so beautiful. But, then I realized that it's not just her face that makes her beautiful...it's her personality, her love for her family and the Gospel, her creativeness, and her passion for life. Anyone who has read her blog knows that she will never lose this. She might look a little different on the outside, but she will still be beautiful and probably so thankful she's alive and able to raise her children.
Thank you for the updates...I check every day! And your whole family is still in my prayers daily!
Long ago before I became a member of the Church, an LDS friend wanted to help me and my husband move to our new home. I resisted her kind offer until she said, "I honestly want to help and how am I to receive blessings if I can't?". I was always a person who didn't want help and wanted to do things on my own, but her words really struck a chord with me. I always remind myself of the blessing others can recieve by accepting their kind acts of service, such as help with a move or RS meals after birthing a newborn.
You and Chup are wonderful people. The world needs more selfless people like the two of you.
Stephanie's spirit IS so beautiful and that is what shined most through her blog. Many of us readers "fell-in-love" with that part of her. When they are healed I just imagine that Christian will look at her and will find her even more precious and beautiful.
Prayers for you all!
Though I just started reading you and your sister a few weeks before the accident, I think about you all constantly. I'm sure we'll never meet in real life, but know that I pray and worry over you and Stephanie like you're my own sisters. Thank you so much for so beautifully recording and sharing so we can give you bloggy hugs from all over the world.
courtney--
you amaze me! every day as i check in, my spirit is strengthened and uplifted. Your family is living proof that there is no tragedy. i have been overwhelmed by how my heart aches for these people i don't "know" just blog stalk. this experience has made me grab my little girl and just hold her, stop and thank my husband daily for ALL that he does for me, and it has made me think about and take action as to what i want to happen, when or if something happens to me or my husband.
thank you for your inspiration, blessings will we poured out upon you and your family, because you have blessed our lives.
Love you tons and praying for you daily.
You are all very loved.
The blogging world is incredible for sure and I've been blown away by how this sad and painful event has brought out the amazing in people. Stephanie and Christian (and you and yours my dear) have blessed the lives of many and now it's the many's turn to return the favor.
much love
i haven't been thinking tragedy either. miracle, more. i'm amazed by God's love, by the fact that love multiplies million-fold by a single [ever] beautiful girl, a single act.
love love you all.
My 2 year old saw me crying (reading your blog once again) and came to wipe my tears. His hands were covered in some left over chocolate he found on the table. Now so am I. Still praying daily for your family. Will continue to do so.
Happy Birthday to Chup.
love from Arizona...sandi (signed in on my daughter's account)
I just started reading Nie's blog after her accident and I am hooked. I have read every single entry since the beginning in one week! Her beauty, spirit and love have touched my soul forever. I am a better person for "knowing" her and her story now. I pray at least 10 times a day for her, Christian, your family and those sweet babes. She will have the most amazing story from this and something tells me she will come out of it even more beautiful than before.
Love to you and your family,
Michelle
I have only been reading Nie for a few months now and I fell in love with her and her family right away. As a Christian, Nie and I share different faiths but I looked forward to her posts everyday. I love her free spirited nature, the beautiful love she felt for her husband, and her creativity with her children (not to mention that they are the most adorable family in the world).
After I heard about the accident I have been absolutely heartsick. I pray for Nie, Mr. Nielsen, and their families everyday. Although I live in central Illinois, very far away from the tragedy, I feel like I am missing a most dear neighbor.
C Jane- I also LOVE that you are keeping us posted on their progress AND the happenings with their children. I can't help thinking that Stephanie would want it that way.
Again, you are all in my prayers!!
Your words are beautiful, C Jane. Thank you.
I have been uplifted and inspired over the last couple weeks with your words. It amazes me how smart our Heavenly Father was when he created us and families. Where would we be without families? I am so thankful that Steph & Christian have the family they have. Truly Amazing. I will continue to pray for them and keep them in my thoughts. Over the last week or so when I would be taking care of my little sweet pea I would think, "What would NieNie do?" She was an amazing mother, I hope some day to be half of what she was. Thanks for the updates!
C jane...you are the best! The Chief is so lucky to have you!
Happy birthday to Chup today! And, we always find out what kind of people we really are when there is adversity, or tragedy, or whatever you want to call it.
It's lovely to know there are people like you and your family in this world. Keeping you all in our prayers.
SO beautifully written. Thank you all for being such an inspiration to me and so many others. I am so honored and thrilled to be a part of Nie Nie day tomorrow!!!
xoxox...jenn
noodle and lou studio
I found your blog (via Nie's, vie Oh Happy Day) and I am now compelled to check it every day. And I am amazed that, despite the fact that I know NO ONE in Utah and have only been to Arizona a handful of times, I feel very connected to your family.
What a blessing you have in the family that surrounds you. And what an unbelievable support system your sister and her husband have as they recover. My thoughts and prayers are with you and with them as they heal and change, and as you and your extended family embrace their children.
Much love and peace to all of you!
I am left to wonder, what sacrifice would you go through personally to personally affect thousands of lives? Your beauty?
For me, this reaches into the heart of this ordeal. It's The Big Question. Some people say that we specifically chose our trials before we came here. I don't know about that, don't know how that concept does or doesn't tie in to foreordination, but I do know what Plan and which Savior and what great purpose, cause, and dream of a reward we chose, after being perfectly educated by perfect and perfectly loving Parents.
This situation has broken my heart over and over again, but in my opinion, there is great purpose in it beyond heartbreak. I feel like I'm tuned into the Miracle Channel as I watch and listen here, and my heart is compensated its hurt and at times overflows with amazement and gratitude as I witness you, your family, your friends, and the greater blogging community cope and cooperate and love and accept and testify and grow in grace. I keep wanting to say thank you.
You are affecting thousands, maybe more. You all are. I am so proud to know you. I am so eager to learn from your examples. I really love you and feel privileged to be associated with your goodness and faith.
The question, a version of your own, that's rolling around in my head right now is, What sacrifice would I go through personally to affect the life of . . . one? or a few? The Lord's economy is incredible and he can do so much more with our lives than we can alone. That said, I don't know that I will be one of those who touches thousands+, or does it in such an exquisite way, but . . . really, what am I willing to give or give up to make the difference that's mine to make? That's what I'm taking away from your blog of beauty this morning. Thank you for helping me with that point.
Sorry this is so incredibly long already, but it's about to get longer. Your question reminded me of this quote by Joseph Smith, which I find terrifyingly beautiful. After being a tiny part of this story, the terror part is lessened for me and converts, like sugar in the body, into power and energy.
"Let us here observe, that a religion that does not require the sacrifice of all things never has power sufficient to produce the faith necessary unto life and salvation; for, from the first existence of man, the faith necessary never could be obtained without the sacrifice of all earthly things. It was through this sacrifice, and this only, that God has ordained that men should enjoy eternal life; and it is through the medium of the sacrifice of all earthly things that men do actually know that they are doing the things that are well pleasing in the sight of God. When a man has offered in sacrifice all that he has for the truth's sake, not even withholding his life, and believing before God that he has been called to make this sacrifice because he seeks to do his will, he does know, most assuredly, that God does and will accept his sacrifice and offering, and that he has not, nor will not seek his face in vain."
Courtney,
I wanted to thank you for this blog where we can keep up to date with what's going on with Stephanie and Christain. But even more - it allows us to really emotionally connect with this tragic situation and realize the good that is coming from it. I really appreciate your thoughtful and insightful posts. They make me smile and bring tears to my eyes at the same time. Your entire family has a special place in my heart and I pray for all of you every night. You are all doing amazing things. Especially Stephanie and Christian.
Love,
Emily S.
I wish I could wash away your family's pain with the tears I shed everyday reading your courageous updates. I am so, so sorry for what has happened to you all, but I feel in my heart that God has allowed this for some greater purpose. It is too long to go into here, but He has a plan. Greater than any of us can imagine. Peace and Joy of the Lord be with you all. My prayers are for ALL of you.
Sincerely, ~Donna
We just lost our Mom to Pancreatic cancer. I understand the feeling of blessings. If you look hard enough there is a blessing in everything. You are right on. The service of others is truly an important part of our Fathers plan. How grateful we are for the Gospel, every aspect of it. Thanks for sharing, you and your family are inspiring.
What I see here is your family being paid back in kind for the love, service and help you have surely offered so many through the years. Good for you for seeing beauty in the midst of tragedy.
Can't wait for NieNie day!
You have brought me to tears again. You are such a gifted writer.
one of my silent wishes for Nie on my balloon was
"letting the inner beauty take center stage"
Her impact on lives I think will be even more profound now, because people will be touched by who she genuinely is, not by what she looks like.
My testimony of the the gospel of Jesus Christ and the knowledge that Heavenly Father has a plan for me and all of us has been strengthened through this post.
Thank you.
Your family is an amazing role model for many others. I believe that God is blessing you with strength and faith to get through this time. My prayers are with all of you. I appreciate your openness in your blog. You have touched me.
Lisa C. in CT
I never, ever plan to cry, but tears always seem to come with I read either the posts or the comments related to this journey.
I love to think of it in the way you've proposed it. That Stephanie and Christian are sacraficing so much (much more than many can understand) but as a result, are inspiring thousands and thousands of people to live better, to be happier, to serve more, to remember the eternal purpose to this "test". They are the greatest form of teachers and I do believe not only were they chosen for this calling in life, but gladly accepted it. Knowing that sacrifice brings forth blessings.
My soul has needed to hear these stories of compassion, service and hope as of late. So thank you for sharing and LETTING others serve your family.
I love how you opened this post - I will carry your words in my heart...
Nie's blog showed up in my google reader suggestions some months ago, which led me to yours, and I've enjoyed peeking in on your blogs for some time now.
Your family - Nie and Christian and the kids especially - have been almost constantly in my thoughts - the hope, faith, joy and love you write about, and sprouting up all over the blogosphere inspire me. Beautiful.
I haven't prayed in a long time. Since I learned about what happened to Nie, I found myself praying for her family, her caregivers, and specially Nie and Mr. Nielson’s parents every chance I get. I guess it's never too late to get closer to God.
Caribbean Kisses to you all.
Found the story through Shebert Blossoms - your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers!
Thinking of you all, today.
many times through out my daily routine my thoughts are turned to stephanie. Wondering just what you asked...what would I go through personally to be able to affect others?
She has always been beautiful. In elementary school everyone wanted to be her friend I thought it was because of her physical beauty.
Over the course of middle school and high school I found that she was beautiful inside as well.
Yes, she is a beautiful woman. Her vintage classic beauty, red lipstick and lovely freckles scream beauty, but her vigor for life, her passion in motherhood and true love for her husband far surpasses her physical beauty.
I know there is a purpose for everything. I also know that God must really think something of Stephanie and Christian having full confidence that they can handle what they are going through and touching many lives in the process.
Beautiful Stephanie will always be beautiful, inspiring thousands and beautifying everything and everyone she comes in contact with.
Reading and thinking about this experience has caused me to ponder much the great council and Christ a lot. how much he knew he was going to suffer, but how there was this greater purpose and how much all the pain would be worth it- how he probably didn't hesitate to step forward and take it for the sake of EVERY soul.
Then I wonder how much we knew about out lives before we came, if we heard about the fiery crashes in our lives yet to hapen before we cross the veil. If someone like Stephanie said 'send me, I would love this life- I would love the opportunity to touch many with the example of Christ's love and help others to learn of the beauty of charity and mercy and miracles'. It seems to me she is the kind of soul to get the bigger picture just like Christ.
Maybe this all sounds strange or off. There is a lot about the pre-existance I still don't understand or fully grasp. It's just sort of in tune with your post, so I thought I would try to connect them.
p.s. even after their recovery, the sharing of this experience will go keep going. I couldn't imagine this not hitting Oprah or becoming a fabulous happy ending (not in a massage happy ending kind of way if you know what I mean) movie.
I was so upset when I learned of Stephanie and Christian's plane crash. I felt the blood drain from my face. I have been emotional ever since. I cannot get them off my mind and pray for them and their children daily. I am so inspired by your loving family and how positive you remain in light of what is happening to your sister and brother-in-law. You all amaze me! I am also super touched by the outpouring of love from neighbors, friends, and strangers. It is obvious that Stephanie has touched many lives. I really do not have adequate words at this time, but wanted you to know how much I care, and that I will pray for them and you all every single day. Take care!
Wendy from Flippin' Sweet
Happy birthday Chup!
I think the silver linings of tragedies is you find out how many people truly love and care about you. I was astonished at the people who called to help and show support when my dad almost passed.
Does Nie know that you have her children? I'm sure it would make her so, so happy to know they are in the best of hands.
I don't have anything to auction off, but I can't wait to start bidding! I really want to help!
I, like many others, have visited your sister's blog for a while now. I've always been touched by her positivity and by what a good mother and wife she is.
I had a similar situation to yours happen a few months ago. My husband was put in the very same hospital with a traumatic brain injury. Our LDS faith and fantastic friends and family have helped us to get through our situation also. We are still working toward his complete recovery, but like you, our "tragedy" has brought amazing growth within our family. Your sister is loved by so many. Sending lots of love your way for the months ahead. You are amazing, stay strong!
Haleigh
My commute takes past the hospital every day, as I drive by this battleground of healing my thoughts turn not only to your Sister and her Husband, they also turn to the Doctors Nurses and family’s fighting for a return to good health. In an instant I realize that the prayers not only meant for your family but also for the prayers on behalf of the other patients and family’s in this hospital make this a special place. You can almost see the blessings pouring down form the heavens each and every day. My words aren’t that elegant and my thoughts are jumbled around in my head but I think of you and your family daily and pray for strength and understanding. I normally don’t comment because I feel like a fish out of water among the sea of women on your inspiring blog but I want to let you know you are in my prayers each and every day.
P.S. Tell Chup he is not alone in showing his emotions towards his family. Men don’t do in enough in this day and age. Being a support to your wife and children is true sign of manhood and not an indication of weakness.
I, like thousands of others, have been deeply touched by your family's accident. Thank you for being willing to open up and share. You are helping more people than you can even imagine.
My niece passed away in a drowning accident earlier this summer. Her mother (my sister in law) has found incredible support and comfort in connections made through the internet. People out there are so GOOD and loving, it's incredible. Sounds like you are finding this to be the same.
Maybe you have read this already, but your comment about tragedy reminded me of a great talk by Spencer W. Kimball: http://emp.byui.edu/HUFFR/Tragedy%20or%20Destiny%20--%20Spencer%20W.%20Kimball.htm
It helps to put these types of trials into perspective. I hope its words will help you as it has lifted me!
I'll be silent auctioning on your family's behalf tomorrow. My prayers continue for your strength and peace. hugs from california, elizabeth
I have watched my son suffer greatly things that most adults could only think of in horror. At first I felt I was forced into some inexplicable hell to watch and not be able to help a mothers worst nightmere, but slowly I stopped questioning why this had happened to him and started watch his incredible spirit cope with a broken body, the strength he has is something that few will ever have. He is just the way the lord intended him and while others may look at him and say what a horrible life they just dont understand. I am sure it will not be even close to easy in the months ahead for everyone involved but nie has strength enough for this and so do you and her children
Another heart wrenching beautiful post.
No matter what she looks like...I know that we all will still think she is a breathtakingly beautiful woman...because that is exactly what she is...and always will be.
One thing is for sure, she is personally affecting thousands, and so are you C Jane. Love you!
thank you for your posts and updates on nie nie! i am so sorry for what has happened to your family. thank you for taking care of her sweet children. i know you will be blessed for such kindness. you are all in our prayers.
I was reminded of this talk by Sister Smoot a while back....
Sister Smoot said.....
I would like to share the story of Susanna Stone Lloyd, who at the age of 26 left England in 1856 and traveled to Utah alone. The only member of her family to join the Church, Susanna was a member of the Willie Handcart Company. Like so many other pioneers, she endured life-threatening hunger, illness, and fatigue.
Upon arriving in the Salt Lake Valley, Susanna borrowed a mirror to make herself more presentable. Despite her best efforts, she recounts: “I shall never forget how I looked. Some of my old friends did not know me.” 1 Having sold her own mirror to an Indian for a piece of buffalo meat, she had not spent much time looking at herself. Now she did not recognize her own image. She was a different person, both inside and out. Over the course of rocky ridges and extreme hardship came a deep conviction. Her faith had been tried, and her conversion was concrete. She had been refined in ways that the very best mirror could not reflect. Susanna had prayed for strength and found it—deep within her soul.
We have all been inspired by Nie's ability to turn the frustrating, mundane, and overwhelming task of motherhood into something enchanting and romantic. Won't it be interesting to see what she does with this trial she's been given? I think we'll all be inspired yet again.
CJane,
I also don't know you or Nie but have been reading your blogs for years.
I was thinking about the blog you posted about a month or so ago. The one where you said you were going to stop blogging but you just couldn't bring yourself to do it. I think this is why - so you could tell Nie's story and help her and your family through this process. And so you can document her children's lives while she is recovering.
You and Chup and your siblings and parents sound like pretty amazing people to me. I can't say I'd be this pulled together in the wake of such a tragedy or family crisis. I think it's wonderful that you are willing and able to share everything on your blog.
I am not a very religious person, but I do have faith in families. And you are a wonderful example of how strong families can be.
I am thinking of Stephanie and Christian and hoping for their full recoveries. And hoping their pain is bearable - through the healing process and afterwards.
Ah Clarky, how blessed I feel to be a part of this blogging world and be inspired through your words and the life of your beautiful sister. We pray as a family for her and Christian that the Lord will make them whole. He will in one way or another. I hope that one day our paths will reunite and we can embrace as soeurs once again. Until then, I will continue to read your words and be uplifted by your life devoted to serving the Lord in whatever capacity is asked. Our prayers will continue and Nie and Christian will become part of us. We will help in whatever way possible. We love you and your family. Gardez la foi!
That is a great post! thanks!
I just stumbled upon Stephanie's blog last week. What a beautiful person, spiritually and physically. I have been praying for her and Christian, that their love for one another and trust in God will pull them through this experience. I am blown away by the way this has brought out so much good in so many people. Even while unconscious Stephanie has touched our hearts and made us all reevaluate our own lives. Rarely has someone else's tragedy brought me to tears, but the story is just so touching.
I pray for you and all your family, for you and Chup, & Lucy & her husband who suddenly have extra children, for the little ones who go to sleep without their parent's kisses, and Stephanie and Christian that they will recover in a miraculous amount of time, so they can rejoin their families.
Sending lots of good wishes and blessings.
You are so wise to let others be blessed by helping, it does help heal hearts that hurt so for you all too. I am almost embarrassed to admit that from the beginning the accident has seemed even worse to me because Stephanie and Christian are so physically beautiful. I kept thinking "Why burns, broken bones okay but why burns". It makes me feel shallow, but you have reminded me that they will still be beautiful, it just may be different. I am so grateful that you, and I, know that one day those beautiful bodies will be perfect again, especially because their spirits will never stop being beautiful. I am excited to participate tomorrow. I'm going to find something Nie-worthy!
Courtney this is such a beautifully written post.
I'm a longtime Nie and C Jane reader and have drawn inspiration from you and your lovely sister on multiple occasions. But as a current inactive member of the church, your words today have stirred something in my heart that I haven't felt in a very long time. Your faith and testimony have once again brought me to tears as it has many times over this last week and a half. My own struggling testimony has been strengthened through your words and my constant prayers for people I've never even met before.
I know of Heavenly Fathers love for us and that he hears our prayer and with that knowledge I will continue to pray for your loving family.
I knew Liz from high school. But had never known of Stephanie or her family until this. But spending a few hours reading her blog I feel like I know here and she has truly inspired me to be a better person, wife and mother.
How blessed Stephanie and Christian are to have the most amazing families and to have their children smothered with love during this time!
I cannot imagine Stephanie ever NOT being beautiful. She'll be beatuiful no matter what happens.
I will continue to keep them in my prayers!
-Salena
Thank you for this lovely piece. I'm so glad you have such immense family support there. How tremendous! Thank you for keeping us posted. We appreciate it so much.
I'll be hosting a few silent auctions on my blog tomorrow per Gabrielle's request. I just returned from France and have a few delights to share...
Hang in there!
Blessings blessings to you all.
Stephanie, Christian, and your entire circle of family remains in our daily thoughts and prayers.
Strange how the goodness of one can spread amongst so many, even stronger through such a sharp twist in the "plan".
The love you are sending, and so graciously sharing with all of us is a gift of the highest order.
Thank you for your goodness. Thank you for your strength. Thank you for the inspiration you are continuing to send daily to so very very many.
With love ~
The Tucker Family
I'm sorry for the terrible tragedy that your family is enduring at this time. I wish I could say that I knew your sister if even only through her blog as she very obviously is a special person.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you especially her dear children! And not for just tonight but through the months and perhaps years of recovery!
God bless!
~ingrid
I don't know you or your sister other than from reading your blogs. You've all been in my thoughts and prayers. The updates you provide here are so tender and beautifully written. I'm sure someday Stephanie and Christian will love to read all that went on during this time. What strikes me so much is what an incredible family you have. I have four daughters, and it is my dream that they will be as close and supportive to each other throughout their lives. It can't be easy to share so much of your personal thought and emotion, but you are an inspiration. Hang in there -- you have legions praying for you all.
Hey there blogging stranger. My google reader picked up you and your sister on the same day about 2 weeks ago. They thought I'd love your blogs and I do.
I'm so sorry to read about the accident. I have a very dear friend (both of us LDS) who was also burnt on 80% (and an outrageous percentage of the burns were 3rd degree) of his body when we were in high school (11+ years ago). I know how freaky it can be. You're right he didn't look physically the same after the accident but his spirit was SO incredibly strong and he is still one of the most beautiful, incredible and absolutely inspiring people that I know. I am sure your sister will be too! He's gone on to get married and raise a beautiful family. Hang in there. There's millions of prayers for you and your family shooting through there. Mine included!
Much love from a *stranger*,
LJ
Here I am, in Seattle, not even Mormon, and still touched by your story. I am so sorry for your situation, and will pray for you and yours. It's so beautiful to see the purity in one's faith- no blame to God, no complaint of added duty. Your love for your sister makes YOU even more beautiful! I truly wish God's blessings upon you and your family. =)
The story of your family, love and sacrifice is stirring and touching and amazingly full of grace.
Continued prayers.
The day before the accident I was looking at some pictures of Steph. All I could think was how beautiful she is.
I found myself praying after the accident that her beautiful face would stay beautiful, that no matter what else, Stephanie would be beautiful.
Then, one night, I knew: Stephanie has always been and will always be beautiful no matter what, because that's who she is.
I'm so saddened to hear about this! I'm still shocked and astounded. But what an amazing family stephanie and christian have been blessed with. They must know that everything is being taken care of and they can lie back and heal and rest. S will have so much to read she's feeling up to it. I'm praying for the children and the whole family. God bless you all. ~lori
NieNieDialogues being made into a book is just the first book. You are writing the second. Then Stephanie will be able to write a third.
And I can't wait to see your voices bound in what will at least be a trilogy.
Thank you, Thank you, for sharing of yourself each night. As my day unwinds, I think of yours, and the fact that you still have energy to share with all of us is greatly appreciated.
I could take these pages of your blog, and post them as my own, 6 years ago. My sister and her husband were in a small plane crash back then. Flying the plane was my Stake President while growing up, and in the seat next to him one of my good friends from high school. Both of which lost their lives. My sister and her husband were in the back seats, and were both flown to Maricopa burn center & placed in drug induced comas. They have 5 children, all of which were suddendly added to my own little family. I have read all of your blog posts, and can feel your and your families pain. Each step you are going through, is similar to what we experienced.
There are so many ups and downs of dealing with burns. It's a tough road. I am truly impressed and in awe of your amazing attitude, and strength. You are such a loving sister, it shines through in your blog post. We were so blessed to have such a close family, and the gospel to help guide us through those trying days. As are you.
I remember the fears of those first few days, weeks, months. Just stay strong, and know that your sister will still be herself, that can not be lost. She is beautiful, and she is blessed to have you and the rest of your family to take care of her sweet kids, and love them like she would.
My heart aches for all of you. Things will get better...the Lord spared them both, and kept them here on earth for a reason, 4 little reasons. :) Our prayers are with you. I will be checking in daily.
If you have questions, or fears, of what is to come, I would love to try to help. Even though you dont know me, I would love to help in anyway I can.
candiceccook@gmail.com
I, probably along with a thousand others, emailed Cookie Mag about Stephanie's accident in hopes that they would post something for others who were inspired by her the home she so lovingly decorated. Her home was featured on Cookie Mag's Nesting website last September. I was delighted to find out today that they did post her story along with a link to help. For those who haven't seen the post yet, copy and paste http://www.cookiemag.com/magazine/blogs/nesting into your browser . Cookie Mag is now my favorite magazine.
Anna
http://www.cookiemag.com/magazine/blogs/nesting/2008/08/help-a-nesting.html
Try that one instead.
Anna
I am so sorry to hear about your sister and her family! I hope they are able to recover soon! I don't know her or your family, I just happened upon the donate link on a friends blog. I was so touched by her story and my heart just aches for her and her family! I live in the D/FW Texas area, so I'm sorry I can't do much to help. I did however paste the link onto my blog and I hope that it gets some donations for you! I'll keep checking back! You are all in my prayers!
So many people have already expressed my feelings as I read your words each day...yet I can't help but write to you anyway. You, Stephanie, Christian,and the rest of your beautiful family have had such an impact on my life since I began to read your blogs a week ago. I didn't know there were still people/families like yours existing out there in the world. The strength, love and faith you demonstrate is inspiring. I think of you all so much during the day and I'm reminded to be grateful, patient, and even kind. Simple things we forget all too often. I'll keep reading and praying for Nie Nie and Christian and their amazing children. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for the updates.
My heart, thoughts and prayers are with your family. My daughter's friend is a friend of Stephanie and told her about your family. I have been so inspired by your thoughts and appreciate you sharing them as well as updates. I work with YW and will be doing our Balloon launch tonight. You are all an inspiration and I feel blessed to feel of your family's sweet spirit. I know He is with all of you.
You, my dear, are a wordsmith. Tears again.
My 5 year old prays for your sister every single day: "please bless that mommy and daddy in the hospital to get better and go home to their babies."
And they will.
We are all beautiful. Our challenge as mortals is to learn to see people the way God sees them-- as beautiful sons and daughters.
They are still beautiful. And frankly, to those of us who have fallen in love with them through this event (we're not using the word tragedy) will see them as even more beautiful than they ever were before... We will see them as God sees them. And that beauty surpasses all.
Is it too late to email you my balloon launch photos?
I have read you blog and Stephanie's blog for about a year. I find you both entertaining and real. My thoughts have been consumed about this accident. The outpouring of love and concern. Daily prayers and a call to help. It is overwhelming when you think about it. To kneel in prayer and bless a stranger and their family provides me with much strength and insight into my own mothering, family and friendships.
Thank you for your insights. I appreciate Stephanie's zeal for life, even for the mundane. I have held tight to the following quote in my life - I hope that it too, brings you comfort..
"Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart."
Wishing you and your family peace at this time!
..I have added the Nielson family to the temple prayer roll in Oregon.
You and your family inspire me beyond words and make me believe in goodness. Thank you for sharing your story with all of us and giving us hope. xo
I have never personally met Nie, but have been following her blog for about a year. I've been trying to figure out why I have been so drawn to her this past year and even more so with her and Mr. Neilson's tragic accident, but now I know, with the comment you made on this post:
"She will be beautiful because she is beautiful."
What makes Nie so beautiful and endearing is not her outside appearance, but her zeal and delight in her life. She TRULY is a stunning example of a woman who delights in womanhood, motherhood and being a loving wife.
Please know that my prayers are being sent heavenward daily with hope for Nie & Christian, her precious children and you and your incredible family, whose lives will be forever changed by this traumatic event.
And it sounds like, from this post, that the change won't really be for the bad, in the long run.
CJane
I came across your blog, as lots do, from my nieces blog. I have been thinking about stephanie & christian daily and the months, if not years of pain, recovery and struggles ahead, but like you, i have faith in the Lord's plan for this family. Even though I am a stranger to your family, I wish i lived closer to help. In honor of nie nie day, I will , as will my husband, sister and 2 neighbors, donate a day's worth of our paycheck to this wonderful family, so in need. As we work on Thursday, we will keep them in mind and i know it will give a renewed purpose to what might be an otherwise normal, sometimes boring workday. My children as well want to get involved and will have a 2-day lemonade & treat stand on saturday & monday and will donate their earnings to this much worthy cause. thank you for letting us into your lives. Your families love & devotion is such a inspiration to so many. I hope we can move forward in our own lives, taking your example to help anyone, in anyway we can.
thank you
linda carter
lpc.carter@verizon.net
My mom was severely burned as a child. She has scars from the burns and grafts all over her body. She was always a little embarrassed about her scars, I think. I never thought they were ugly. The scars give my mom an interesting texture (physically and spiritually too). They are a badge of her courage and healing from a horrific, painful experience.
No scar can hide beauty. Your sister is incredibly beautiful... always.
Thanks for the updates, inspiration, and fresh tears.
Great items on my auction starting tomorrow.
Your family amazes me. So much good is coming from these events. Regardless of belief, background or blog- it is wonderful to see so many strangers coming together in solitude for this cause.
Please pass along my husband & I's true amazement to your husband. We discussed if we would be able to take on my own sister's children if needed. It would be hard, very hard- no matter how much love is there. Your example and sacrifice is not going unnoticed.
I got your link from my sister, Kim Beazer. I didn't know the whole story very clear until I read this blog. I am so impressed by your strength and so happy to see the overwhelming support. I will pray for your family.
Krista
I am a stranger to your family and was drawn to your blog by my niece's blog. I have thought about stephanie & christian so much in last few days and the pain, recovery, struggles ahead for them in the coming months and probably years. But like you, I have faith in the Lord's plan for this family and know whatever lies ahead they will have the tremendous love and support your family has shown. I wish i lived nearby so i could do the typical mormon dinner, dessert, etc etc.. However, in honor of nie nie day here in beautiful california, I will, as will my husband, sister & 2 neighbors and 1 co-worker , donate our paycheck earnings on thursday, to this wonderful family. We will think of stephanie & christian on thursday and I know it will give a renewed purpose to what might be a otherwise boring, typical workday. As my children want to get involved as well, they will have a huge 2 day lemonade/treat sale on saturday & monday, donating their earnings as well. Thank You for letting us into your lives and for being an amazing example of family. I know you have inspired many to be better sisters, daughters, wives, friends, etc etc. Keep us posted.
thank you
Linda
Thank you for the updates.
Best wishes to Stephanie and Christian, to their children and to all of you - a pretty amazing family.
Courtney,
Thanks for the daily updates. I do not know your family but I am praying for you guys and last night in the temple I put the names "Nie Nie and Mr. Nielson" on the roll because I could not remember Stephanie's name at the time. I find myself on here each day to hear what is happening. I'm grateful that you have such a wonderful family and your faith is inspiring to all of us. Hang in there and please let me know if there is anything I can do. I live in Holladay and would be happy to help. You can email me at ashleymrich@gmail.com.
Thank you so much for opening your heart to all of us. I don't know you or your sister, but I can't help coming back to check and cheer and pray. Isn't it strange how something like this brings our own mortality and blessings into perspective? You are a beautiful soul yourself. It must run in the family!
This community of bloggers is remarkable to say the least. I dont you. I now read you everyday. I do pray for you. And I pray for your beautiful sister and hubby. I woke in the middle of the night last night...and found myself thinking of you and your sister and the kids. It is strange that strangers can and do impact our lives. I too believe in the power of prayer. I am praying for all of you!! The way you express yourself and what this experiece means to you and your family is VERY powerful!! I pray that you continue to find the silver lining...though there will of course be times when the lining is worn very thin. Bless you and all that are 'connected' to you!!
You are a beautiful writer! Your post always get me all teary. My love and prayers are with you and your entire family....from Az. Your words are perfect, there is nothing I could add. With much love.
My heart goes out to each and every one of you. I pray for a speedy recovery for your sister and brother-in-law. Ever since learning about the accident it has been foremost on my mind. I was so profoundly moved by your question about what would one be willing to sacrifice in order to affect thousands of lives. Your sister's beauty will live on forever.
You know how they say "After every storm there is a rainbow waiting".... NieNie,her sweet family and all of the helping hands are the most beautiful rainbow I have ever witnessed. Thank you for inspiring me to live each day to the fullest and to cherish each and every moment, even when the storms of life are raging! Thank you!
I'm having surgery on Thurs and am so sad that I can't participate in NieNie day! Please know that you and your family are in our prayers.
i have thought of this quote by cs lewis a thousand times since the acciedent:
"little people like you and me, if our prayers are sometimes granted, beyond all hope and probability, had better not draw hasty conclusions to our own advantage. if we were stronger, we might be less tenderly treated. if we were braver, we might be sent, with far less help, to defend far more desperate posts in the great battle."
i am a little person, not nearly strong enough for what they are facing. they were given a far more desperate post in the battle, which only speaks to the trust the lord puts in their strength.
we continue to pray for their full recovery. she will always be full of beauty.
Dear Courtney,
The hardest part for me when I am sick and afraid about the future is wondering about my children. If I were Stephanie, I would be at peace knowing that you and Chup were caring for my children. I'm grateful to be able to feel your love for those little guys, and for your sister.
i don't know your sister, but through her blog i have been drawn in by her magnetic charm and love for life. Their are people who's beauty shine from the inside out, your sister is a prime example of this. Stephanie (and her husband) I have no doubt took on this life challenge in the preexistence because they knew they could. Their take on life is exemplary and captivating. You are blessed to have such an incredible family.
I really cant get her accident or her amazing spirit out of my head. I am so inspired, and my heart is overflowing for her sweet family. Heavenly father knows how special she is. I have no doubt that, despite her injuries, she will always shine just as brightly.
-Carolyn
(AZ)
I can't help but think this is why technology has soared in these last days...to both share the gospel in traditional missionary ways but to also link all of us together so we can comfort and mourn together. We would never have known of her or your family if not for the internet but because we do, and are aware of other people's trials through their own blogs, our testimonies are strengthened and we can see the power of faith and prayer. Thank you for updating your blog.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts once again. I am touched daily by your strength and that of your family, and of course Stephanie and Christian. I don't know how you do it, but you answer so many of the questions that I have swirling in my head. You are all in my prayers.
Tell Chup 'Happy Birthday'!!
I appreciate your acknowledgment of how the outside of a person can change but that isn't what is important right now. I'm hoping that when Stephanie and Christian make it through, even if their skin looks different, their kids will still be hugged and loved and cared for by their parents. No matter what they look like. This is all I can think about - how those 4 little ones are doing and getting through each day. I'm so glad they are surrounded by such love. Thanks for your updates, its encouraging to know hope and prayer do work.
I have no idea how I found your sister's blog, but 3 days ago I came across it and since then, I have thought of her, her husband and her sweet children several times. Then I started to read your entries and I am in total admiration of you and your husband. Please know that there a countless prayers in behalf of all of you.
I have been reading your blog as well as your sisters blog for the past few days. I found out about it from a silent auction of a blog that I visit daily (a daily scoop). I am awed by your family and the courage, grace and determination you all share.
It is things like this that allow us to know what truly matters. It is not the newest this or that, but rather the ones that we love. I am so guilty of letting that slip into the background and taking it for granted. Since I found Stephanie's (a daily scoop) blog and read of the tragic loss of her daughter, I have slowed down and appreciated my loved ones on a deeper level. Reading about your trials and triumphs have allowed more of that gratefulness to come into my home.
Please know that you and your entire family are in my daily prayers. I think what you and your husband are doing is wonderful. I have often thought of what would happen to my kids if a tragedy were to befall me and my husband, I can only hope that they would be as well taken care of as your nieces and nephews are.
So, I figure I can say sorry again and again or sit back and enjoy the fact that you still have the way with words and hinting that treats will always be welcomed! Love ya lots!
Kara
you guys are amazing and you are an amazing writer! Our prayers are with you all. My heart breaks for the pain that you all are going through especially christian and steph but thankfully we have the knowledge of the gospel and the love that draws us all closer together and closer to the saviour we all have something to learn. Thank you so much for sharing her story and making us all aware of what we take for granted. Praying for you guys everyday!!!
Praise to you and your family.
I put stephanie and christian on the prayer roll in the Oakland, CA temple.
Hi,
You don't know me, but I'm best friends with Azucar's youngest sister. So, every once in a while I pop in to your blog.
When my sister had to go to the hospital for "psychiatric" reasons, everyone in the community reached out to her. She was beloved by everyone she met and in turn we felt the out pouring of their love. I totally understand your feeling overwhelmed by the kindness of others, because what your sister is going through.
Good luck and I I always say that no matter what happens there's light at the end of the tunnel.
You don't know me, but I've read your sister's blog for the last year. She is an amazing and wonderful person whom I've grown to admire so much without even knowing. I love the way she could make the simplest of things so wonderful and exciting. And over the last week or so, you have become equally amazing and inspiring to me. Thank you for your example of pure charity and faith - even in the darkest of life's seemingly unfair moments. Stephanie and Christian and you and your family have been in my constant thoughts and I send you my love, my prayers and my respect. I am hoping for miracles to keep happening in your lives.
I'm overwhelmed with tears reading your post. my heart has been aching for Steph ever since I heard the news. feels good to get a cry out. I have such love for your family, you are all such heart-warming people to be around. I always look forward to seeing and chatting with one of your family members at the salon.
I can see clearly now why having a Strong testimony is so important, its to get you through moments like these. seeing you all rally together with such love & strength has truly inspired me. Steph is blessing so many people. I know shes strong and will fight hard for her recovery. you all will be in my prayers...
Continuing to pray for you all.
I was raised in Gilbert, Az and grew up in a ward with many of Christian's siblings. Wonderful people and they have all been a part of my life one way or another. I started reading Nie's blog a little while ago... a simply inspiring woman! I don't have children yet, but I want to be just like her in so many ways. She knows what is important and doesn't let silly little things get in the way of living life with her family. I love reading of her love for her husband! I’ve never met her but I feel like she has permanently changed me. This picture of her is amazingly beautiful.
Heavenly Father has picked her to play such an amazing role. She is inspiring thousands of people to realize what is important and to be closer to their families. She is giving people the opportunity to be blessed through service and prayer. Your own family is showing such service by caring for her children and we are all learning through you. This isn’t the way anyone would want to go through this, but she has changed and affected the lives of thousands that she may never know. She has such a special plan for her life. She will always be beautiful especially to all of those whose lives she has changed forever. Your family ties are amazing and how you have all pulled together. I can’t thank you enough for the inspiring changes you have made for me. No one will ever forget Neilson Family.
I am doing an auction for Nie Nie day. Add me please. I hope many look at my blog for this! ashmadsen.blogspot.com
Let me know if you need to know what I'm auctioning or a picture of it. I'll get it right to you.
I just wanted to let you know I really appreciate your blog and the updates. My friend Dil and I were actually in St Johns when the plane went down. We would have seen it happen but we were looking down at a map at the gas station and when we looked up, we saw a ton of black smoke so we went to check it out. At the time, we didnt realize a plane had gone down , but we did take a few pictures of the fire mostly, if you are interested in having them for any reason, just let me know. I happen to live in Mesa but I dont know Stephanie and Christian, however if you can get me in touch with the RS Pres of their ward or something, I'm totally willing and able to help out with anything I can. Whether its helping take care of the house or stuff like that, I am more than happy to do it.I feel a part of this since I was there in the area when it happened and usually I dont hear "the end of the story" to things I see but somehow I found your blog online and its great to get these updates and read what you write - you have an amazing talent! Thank you!! www.redcherries22.blogspot.com
As I posted on my blog today, every time I read your posts, I just want to hug you!
I will never look at tragedy the same thanks to your amazing perspective. You are so correct in calling this experience and opportunity.
Thank you for being an incredible teacher!
Love and prayers to your family and all involved in this process.
My heart goes out to you. I don't even know how I stumbled across your blog. I am sitting here in tears, hoping and praying for your family...for the best outcome. I don't know why this hits me especially hard, maybe it's because she and I share a name (Stephanie, except mine is Stephnie no 'a') or maybe it's that I lost my sister 5 years ago in a car accident, I don't know, either way I am touched by your story. Be so grateful that they are still here...I miss my sister tremendously every day. Everything happens for a reason and Heavenly Father has his plan, we just don't always get to know the 'why' of things.
My thoughts and heart and prayers are with you.
Loves...
Steph
I have been wanting to write a comment ever since I heard about Steph and Christian, so here I am finally. I was priveleged to know Stephanie when we were in high school together. From the moment I met her, there was an amazing light about her. It was infectious and beautiful. You couldn't help but laugh and smile when you were around her. Her spirit is beautiful. It still is, and continues to bless and affect all those who are priveleged to know her. Thank you for sharing this journey with us. I have never met a family quite as amazing as yours. The love you have for one another is inspiring. My thoughts are always with Steph, Christian and her beautiful children. Thank you for strengthening my faith in this wonderful gospel and love for our Savior and Heavenly Father.
I know that the light I saw in Stephanie many years ago, is only being strengthened so that when this bumpy road is done....it will be her beacon.
I've often wondered over the last couple of weeks...how is Nie going to handle her new look...because I've never doubted she would get through this..."out of the woods" but as little as I've known I assumed her appearance would be altered. Is Nie that person we all believe she is...those of us who only know her through the blogging world? After reading this post, I know she is. How can you not be the bright light everyone thinks you are with such a wonderful and supportive family around you? Nie and her family are so lucky to have such wonderful family members to step in and take care of their children.
Your post spoke to me, because of what I'm going through in my life (divorce) that actually turned out to be one of the most wonderful and rewarding difficult times for me. It's not over yet and I am excited to do all this growing from anything I encounter. I think beauty and strength come from our most difficult moments.
Nie and you and your family are an inspiration to me, and my life seems so wonderful and simple sometimes compared to everything you are going through. This post brought tears to my eyes.
I think of you all daily and send my love, thoughts and prayers your way.
I just had the thought that this is exactly what Heavenly Father would want us to be doing. Caring, and reaching out to one another. There really is so much good in the world - sometimes we might forget until we catch a glimpse of what it's all about during times like this.
Thank you for allowing me to be a part of this journey even if only via blogosphere. I have learned so much as I have laughed and cried these past couple weeks. I feel better for "knowing" your family. I hope though unconscious, Stephanie and Christian are feeling an outpouring of love and "angels round about them" to buoy them up. I hope the same for your whole family.
I read your post and I'm full of gratitude for families and the great plan of happiness. What an awesome plan, what an incredible person your sister is and what an amazing family you have. I'm sure you're full of emotions but you can tell that gratitude is at the forefront. Kudos to you for being who Heavenly Father needs you to be. You can tell your entire family has been prepared for this. Thank you for reminding us all what is truly important.
Thank you for allowing us all to serve. It a pleasure to do so.
Beautiful words. There is beauty throughout this whole experience. And inspiration. Thank you for sharing, for rising to this challenge, and for allowing everyone in to see the example of how we should all be living. Times like this really remind you about what is most important in life.
You and your family are amazing! Your family continues to be in my family's prayers. Thank you for sharing your beautiful words with all of us.
Constant Prayers are going out from my family to yours! I loved this blog entry because every word is ture. Family is one of the Lord's greatest creations and it is so nice to have them rally around you in time of need. I am auctioning off a cute bracelet to help support Nie and their whole family.
You are an amazing family. You do not know me but I came upon your story through a friend of Stephanie's. I have been amazed as I have read how your family has rallied together during this time of trial. My dad is actually a physician at IHC and serves on the board with your dad. He speaks very highly of him and now I see first hand what a wonderful man he must be and what an incredible family he has raised. Every time I read your blog I am brought to tears by the strength and goodness you all portray. What a blessing the Gospel is and what strength it gives us in times of hardship. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers, especially your sweet sister, her husband, and her children.
this coming together of people to help a family that some know and others only know b/c of blogspot is an act of love. i am one of those others who found your blog b/c of another blog and eventually found the Nie Nie blog. all beautiful and inspiring.
bless you all and the angels you are caring for. you are in our prayers.
My thoughts, prayers, and hopes are with you all! I think its so wonderful how your family has come together in the way they have and that you have taken on the care of your sister's children during her recovery. I will keep reading, looking forward to that day when I hear your sister and brother-in-law are home and reunited with their kids. Take care!
I love the pictures of Nie Nie that you post because she is so beautiful. Not because of her features, but there is something within that you can see in her expressions and eyes that make her beautiful and she will always be beautful, even if she looks completely different.
I used to work with Christian when he & Steph lived in NJ. I had the pleasure of meeting her and the wonderful children. Christiaon and I hit it off immediatly. He'll tell you it's because I'm that Crazy Brooklyn guy he says is in the mob! I loved making him laugh and tell him my Brooklyn stories. He'd go home and tell them to Steph and his friends and the next day he would tell me their reactions. I truly feel so shattered by what has happened. I try to keep updated with your Blogs. The Co workers at Sodexo are all very concerned and ask everyday for updates. I wonder if they are concious, sedated or what? Just kiss Steph for me and tell Christian that his MOb Buddy from Brooklyn loves him. He'll know who it is..........
Wow! I am amazed at your strength and outlook on this terrible accident. I have read both your blog and Stephanie's blog for sometime and love the way both of you write. I have been so inspired by Nie. My heart broke when I learned she and Christian we harmed in the accident. I just couldn't get it out of my head and was so, so sad. I have shed many tears for perfect strangers who I feel like I "know". Even though I am Catholic, I believe in God's plan and know he is asking Stephanie and Christian t teach us all. Thank you for sharing what must be so vey difficult to share. It amazes me what can happen through the power of prayer. I am trying so hard to see the good that will come from this and I apprecate you sharing what you believe. God bless and know another family is praying for ALL of you. Kris in Maryland
I hope you feel the love and support pouring out of our hearts for you and Chup, for all of the children - yours and theirs, for your entire extended family, and for Stephanie and Christian. Love and support and tears and awe and an overwhelming sense of wonder and gratitude, for family, for friends, for community.
We are overwhelmed, and hopeful.
I'm another one of those strangers that heard about this accident and through friends' blogs, found yours. I love looking for updates on Stephanie & Christian's recovery and hope that things continue to go well for them and for you. Thank you for your testimony and examples, and for your willingness to share this story with those around you! When my husband & I lost our son we couldn't believe how many people came to our aid. It was absolutely amazing...it really felt like heaven on earth. I have no idea what heartache and sorrow you are experiencing, but I'm guessing that you will look back on this whole experience with some very sweet memories too. Good luck with everything. I will definitely be praying for your family.
so touching. so true. I have been praying for you all.
Courtney-
I just wrote my Masters Thesis on the power of the Internet to accomplish change. This little forum and family are such perfect examples of the good, the peace, the power of that technology-you are transforming lives through what you are doing.
Thank you for sharing and loving so much.
We are thinking and praying for your sweet family at this time...tomorrow will be exciting with all the goodness flowing through the internet on Stephanie's behalf.
You have such a wonderful perspective, what a blessing it is to have the knowledge of the gospel.
I don't have much more to add to all that's been said, but just wanted to leave one more comment so you can know one more person is thinking of your family, praying, looking to bid tomorrow, and appreciative of your testimony which shines through your posts. And I know for every one of me there are at least a dozen, probably five or ten, that never comment, but are also touched by this story. They are lurkers, but their lives are changed because of this and they are praying for Nie, and you, and Chup (happy belated birthday to that silent (to the blog world) hero). I know because these are my non-commenting friends and family who read blogs and cry to me real tears for this stingless tragedy. I would love to know the number of lives changed.
The Lord works in a mysterious way. What a great gospel....to have all that we have. These kinds of things (life altering accidents, death and such) we all get a new love and hope for the resurrection when "not a hair will be lost" or a beautiful face restored to more beautiful than before. What a miracle!!!
Much love!!!!
So many comments to read, so I apologize if this is repeating someone else's...
I remember a post of yours not long after The Chief was born. You had prepped your fan base for an end to your blog, yet when you sat down to end it, you couldn't.
I am reminded of Esther, and that she was sent "for such a time as this." I think that phrase is equally applicable to your blog, and to your sister's blog. Thanks for sharing your perspective and insights. They have strengthened my faith more than you will ever know.
I know now what I want to say today.
This thing you are doing--your whole family is doing--for your dear sister and brother-in-law is no small thing. I thought of you and yours today when I read this: " ... have miracles ceased? Behold I say unto you, Nay; neither have angels ceased to minister unto the children of men." Moroni 7:29
I believe angels from both sides are ministering right now. Bless you.
You are an amazing sister and you have an equally amazing spouse to take care of each other like you are. You clearly come from a very special family and have shown us all what unconditional love from family looks like. We wish you the best. As far as your sister looking different after she is healed she radiates beauty from within her heart and soul and your are correct she will be beautiful after.
You and your entire family is inspiring. I have been reading your blog for about a year. I heard about it through a friend that is a mother of a friend of Nie's. I feel like I know all of you through your blogs.
My prayers and thoughts are with you. Just like I said earlier, inspiring...
I honestly cannot believe how one's heart can actually hurt so bad for someone they do not know; Or how they can cry because of the little small miracles they see working each day because of such a tragedy. But I have felt just that. It is joyous to see so many people doing so many things out of love for The Nielson's. Thank you for keeping the spirits high, and for taking the time to update everyone on the recoveries. I think it means more than you would know. And from the bottom of my heart... thank you for doing so much for the children. Im glad they have smiles on their faces in the pictures and that they can be close to so much family at this time. Much love to you and your family.
Your family's story has touched my heart. Your faith in the face of tragedy is remarkable. I will keep you in my prayers.
Although I do not know you or your family, I am in awe of the closeness and the bond that you share. Since I heard of this tragedy it has not left my mind. I started to read Nie Nie's blog and found so much inspiration! Reading about her life and her children, made me know how lucky and fortunate I am to be a mother. What a blessing our children truly are. She is amazing, your family is amazing! Thank you for sharing and keeping us up to date. I will be praying for you all.
Alicia
I learned about this from my friend Tiffany Hillam, who is friends with Nie. Our husbands so got med school together here in Missouri. We lived in Mesa before moving here a year ago. They are in our prayers and we think of them often! Your words are so uplifting and positive! Thank you for them and we love you!
We will keep Nie & Christian and family in our prayers. Here is a prayer that was given to my father just days before he died from cancer. He took great comfort in it and I hope you will, too.
BE AT PEACE
DO NOT look forward in fear
to the changes of life;
rather look to them with full
hope that as they arise, God,
whose very own you are,
will lead you safely through
all things, and when you
cannot stand it, God will carry
you in His arms. Do not fear
what may happen tomorrow,
the same everlasting Father
who cares for you today will
take care of you then and every
day. He will either shield you
from suffering, or will give you
unfailing strength to bear it.
Be at peace and put aside all
anxious thoughts and imaginations.
--St. Francis de Sales
With warm thoughts & prayers,
The Allard Family
Heather, Scott, Hope, Grace, Brendan and The Dude
I am not really sure what to say, but I do know that I need to say something. I had a friend who had once gone through a tragedy in her life and I apologized one time for not being there for her or saying anything because I did not know what to say. She told me that anything is better than nothing. I have always tried to remember that. I guess I hope that sometime it might be the right thing. I heard about the accident because Kinneards are in my stake. But then my grandmother called and I am not sure of the relations but my aunt and uncle are somehow related to your family? (thomas) and in my grandparents ward. Anyway, Your sister is beautiful inside and out. No matter what happens to her outward looks it is so wonderful to know what an amazing person she is. And it's is so wonderful to know that we will all end up in our perfect state.
I have prayed for your family. I have 3 younger sisters and I know the feelings that you have spoke of when you talk of love for them. It's never ending.
But I also wanted to tell you that I am praying for you. You have done such an amazing service. One that no matter if it's your best day or not will challenge you but I am sure you thought that your sis would do the same for you if need be. You are amazing. You have such a special spirit and I totally respect you! Good luck I will keep following up.
I heard about your sister and brother-in-law through the Design Mom blog, which I found randomly a few months ago. Stephanie and Christian have been in my prayers day and night since I learned about the accident. I am still getting up at night nursing my 7 month old, and my mind constantly goes to the fight that Stephanie and Christian are in. No longer can I complain about the lack of sleep, as the battle they are going through is much worse. My prayer is that God is doing the fighting so that their bodies can rest. You have beautiful words to describe such a trying time, and your sister is blessed to have you. I smile at your husband experiencing such overwhelming feelings for the love of his child, especially during such a difficult time. My husband and I are constantly overwhelmed about the immense love we have for our first.
My thoughts and prayers are with your sister, her husband and your entire family.
I am just a stranger from the ominous blogging world, but I do live in Mesa and have tried to keep up with the progress of your Stephanie and Christian. My husband and I lost his little brother and sister in law 3 years ago. Both killed instantly in a head on collision. They left behind a daughter who was just shy of two at the time. We took that little girl into our home and have since adopted her. It was difficult for some time, some unique challenges we have faced. I really do admire you and your husband taking care of the children. What a blessing you are in the lives of those kids and their parents. It is not easy, at the end of the day it is still you and your husband sharing that responsibility. I know that many are sending prayers heavenward for you as well. thank you for helping many of us to realize how blessed we truly are. Ultimately it is the will of our Father in Heaven, he is in charge, and gratefully he knows best for all of us. keep the faith. and thanks for letting many share this experience with you.
I look for your updates daily, no maybe hourly, hoping for some news any news. I hope and pray that the whole family is finding comfort in our faith and in the plan that our loving Heanvenly Father has for us. I hope the children are still doing well and will be able to understand all that is happening in thier own ways and able to bear up the changes they will face.
I also have a firend who was in an induced coma and coming out of coma and realizing the loss of time was the hardest. If there be one thing I could help with it would be that...helping your sister and brother in law learn to deal with and manage the loss of time they will face and have to see in the eyes of thier growing children.
I pray for you and will fast this next month for your whole family.
noelani
I just made a little donation. It is only small, but if all the bloggers can spare something small it will amount to a lot.
I wanted to leave a comment because, unlike you, I do not have a Faith. But I do believe in something. I believe in people like you and your sister and the extraordinary depths of love and kindness that human beings can possess.
My monetary donation might be small, but the well wishes coming your way from Sydney, Australia are enormous.
I do not know your sister or her family but I have been so touched by the love of communities that have came together in giving service, prayers, faith and their love to such a beautiful woman. It is so wonderful that we have a loving Heavenly Father who is there to walk us through our trails. Your sister will always be a beautiful woman.
My thoughts go back to a few years ago when my sweet little cousin who was 5 years old was severely burned and the faith of this little girl was always so positive, my testimony grew so much. Even though this little girl had 90 percent burns and had lost her little hands she was beautiful. Sad to say due to a secondary infection this sweet little girl was taken back to be with our Father in Heaven.
I know that Stephanie will continue to heal and she will be a great strength to all those around her. She is truly amazing. I have came love her and I have never met her.
My prayers and faith is always with them.
Thanks for sharing again what you are going through. I was just commenting to my neighbor what a unique thing that we all are sharing in the grief of this tragedy without knowing your family. It has touched me and my little group of friends and consumed our thoughts and prayers. We truly hope the best outcome for all of you.
You are a hero, thank you for sharing so much.
3 of us will be holding auctions tomorrow,www.winborgdesigns.blogspot.com,
www.jessicamariesmith.blogspot.com, and www.wordcandyvinyl.blogspot.com
we are participating and raising money for nie nie day at scribblehoney.com - but most of all we offer our blessings & well wishes & we're extremely impressed with your beautiful outlook on all of this. please keep everyone updated with their status - we are so eager to hear news about what's going on & how their recovery is going.
*love to your family & friends* hang in there... just keep swimming...
the comments left here are so touching! Don't think I've ever poured over comments the way I have on the posts since the accident.
I have been in awe at the outpouring of love & prayer from all over the world. Has restored my faith in the human soul, in God's plan & the message of our Savior.
Amazing. Just amazing how many individuals have been affected.
What incredible families, here.
Love & prayers to all of you!
beautiful, beautiful. you represent our family well. thank you! - vc & pc
Beauty is not something that can be taken away.
In the East, they say: every snowflake falls where it should.
Although we have never met, we are in this together.
Love and Light to You All.
I have heard it said you receive the testimony after the test...how very special your family must be to our Heavenly Father to use you all as instruments in spreading the gospel in such a way and to show how much families can express their deep love and compassion for one another...I have been deeply touched and affected by this left turn given your family. My faith and prayers are with you all and it has made me want to be more loving to all I come in contact with...because you just never know...
i love love love the first paragraph of this post. love.
i love it because i can say in response "amen and amen".
i am so grateful for a loving savior who will carry us through our trials, and at the same time help us learn to love the beauty in the moment.
as heart-wrenching as this tragedy is, i am so happy that you and your family are finding the peace and love that the savior brings.
beautiful.
As #179, I still must say: chills.
I believe all of that with all of my heart, but it's a lot easier to believe it from afar.
I'm so humbled that you are believing it, while smack dab in the center of it. Thanks so much for bearing witness.
thank you SO much for the updates. Stephanie has been so inspiring, and it is obvious that your parents raised GREAT CHILDREN! Hugs and prayers!
I am a stranger and fellow LDS member who is saddened by the tragedy that has touched your family. Please know that your sister and husband and family have been in my prayers.
My grandma always said to me, when I was a little girl: "Pretty is as Pretty does".
At least a hundred times she said that to me. And I never understood it until I got older.
And now, I believe it with all my heart.
Stephanie is the epitomy of that statement. She is beautiful because of who she is, and what she does, and the light within her. And how she has affected us all.
I get it now. Grandma was absolutely right.
Bless your heart for taking all of this on. I think of you throughout the day, with four children and a husband to take care of, and I marvel at your ability to take it all in stride.
Surely the blessings of heaven are pouring out upon you.
I'm still praying. My kids remind me at night to pray for your family. So many lives touched.....so many.
I do not believe I have ever cried over a perfect stranger before...and yet, as I check for daily updates, I find myself tearing up with every post that I read. You, your sister and your family are truly an inspiration. You inspire all of us to be better, to have faith, and to believe that there is a purpose. Thank you, cjane, for reminding all of us about the importance of faith and perspective.
Stephanie may look a bit different on the outside, but her spirit and her beauty will remain. She is blessed to have such a wonderful sister, and family, who are supportive and faithful during this trying time.
I just read this quote and it made me think of your post (which I loved).
The longer I live the more beautiful life becomes.
- Frank Lloyd Wright
You are amazing. Your family is amazing. And your sister, whom I had never heard of until the accident occurred, is undoubtedly amazing. It wasn't too long ago I told a friend of mine I'm convinced trials are often a way to share the Gospel and inspire others. With each update I have more tears, but also more inspiration.
Add my name to the thousands of people who've experienced irreversible inspiration because of this and add my prayers to the thousands that have been offered in your family's behalf. And know that words will never be adequate to express the overwhelming feelings that surround me when I think of not only the "tragedy", but how your family has responded.
We love you too..how could we not? We are praying and know you are loved and cared for by our creator, our Lord. Bless you and your family. Nie Nie is such a beauty of inspiration and will remain such! xo Heather and Donna
http://www.blessednestperch.com/home-at-blessed-nest/2008/8/28/nienie-day-limited-edition-nesting-pillow.html
I don't know you, I linked over from Mara's blog-I am so sorry for your family and so inspired by all that you are doing to make it better. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers. Thanks for the lesson on why we are here and what is really means to be family.
Your family is an inspiration to me. I'm spreading the word on my blog and hoping that lots of people donate. I'm a little late finding out about the auction or i would have donated something too. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
wow, nie is absolutely breath taking in that photo. this post was so beautiful. i couldn't agree more with your insightful outlook on this situation. thank you so much. you, nie, christian, your entire family for that matter, are incredibly admirable. what amazing examples you are to all of us. please check out the silent auction i'm hosting. all of the items remind me of nie and it makes me happy. vintage was something we shared in common. i remember telling her, shortly after i met her, that she should be the one teaching me about vintage! it was after we discussed what we would be teaching at blissful living and my classes are all on "vintage living".
This is just beautiful.
My adoring tribute post to Nie:
http://nathanandkrista.blogspot.com/2008/08/love-for-nie.html
Prayers and positive thoughts coming your way. Thank you for your optimism and willingness to share this story. Your family has inspired us all.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and your families.
Praying for you. Thank you for such a good attitude. It changes my perspective on how things are today.
They will both remain just as beautiful. And I'm grateful for the lessons we're all learning from them.
I was asked to speak in Sacrament meeting last Sunday and while I was waiting for a talk to print off that I was going to study I happened upon your sisters blog and then to yours. I was filled with so many emotions, but mostly the spirit. I felt inspired to tell Stephanie and Christian's story in my talk and share about the faith, hope, and love your family has for one another. I was most impressed at how you mentioned feeling peace and love for a kind a Heavenly Father.
Your testimony has strengthened my own. My faith has also been strengthened and I have know doubt that there were many in the meeting who feel the same way.
I have shed many tears for your family, a family that I don't even know! I find it amazing how the LDS faith binds us to one another. We truly are children of a loving and kind Heavenly Father. I feel a sisterhood with you and Stephanie and feel that if I never meet you in this life, I will in the next at least to say thank you for your faith and for sharing this experience with me. It has made me a better person.
That picture of your Stephanie is so beautiful. I think her beauty on the inside will always emanate outward, making her as she always was.
~Chelsea
~Chelsea
I have stumbled upon this blog thru a comment left on my blog...and as I have read the stories, it has all truely touched my soul. I have cried for the pain being endured and the sacrifices and love that is being shared. I want you to know that Stephanie and Christian are in my prayers and so are you, her dear family and children. I am going to go down to my Wells Fargo and doante as soon as my little ones wake up from their naps. Thank you for sharing your testimonies and devotion to our Heavenly Father, His great plan and to the strength of families! May He bless and comfort you at this time! My heart is full of love and best wishes for you at this time.
Beautifully written..Even though we're complete strangers we continue to think of Stephanie and Christian and their family and friends at this time.
xo
~Christine
Bend, Oregon
I read about your dear family on Sarah Jane's blog. I am sooo sorry to hear of what has happened. We are thinking of you all. I do not know you, but cannot pass up this opportunity to send my love and best wishes to your beautiful sister, her husband and their dear children. Be brave!!!!
Best wishes from,
Laurie and family (California)
This is the first I have heard about any of this. We will keep you in our prayers.
thank you for the updates, you & your family amaze & strengthen me...keep it up! Our thoughts and prayers are with you!
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